An event is multi dimensional. When people recall their experience of an event, argument, fight etc. and there are a lot of discrepancies, it does not mean some of them are necessarily lying. It just means they are describing everything from their perspective and through their own filters. So lets not rush to judgment, and call them a liar. In order for us to assess a situation, and decide who was at fault if anyone, we need to hear everyone’s viewpoint who was present at the event, and put together that multidimensional picture of the event. So next time someone starts to tell you about this thing that happened to them, just keep in mind you don’t have all the facts to make a judgment!
It seems obvious, but …..
